Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Really 42??


September 18th….it’s a Wednesday this year. I was also born on a Wednesday, hard to believe 42 years ago. 42?!!!
Since when am I even 40?  Part of my reason for teaching abroad for a few years was exactly that “I’m going to for 42”…..it’s now or never. (getting up in the morning ain't getting easier....actually staying up at night ain't easy as well) lol
It is also my 10th year teaching. Just seemed right for lots of reasons.

Being away from family and friends was a little hard. My mother Always makes me a birthday dinner. This year I went out with some new friends to one of our favorite places Café du Lirve. It’s the same place where quiz night takes place and where the expats hang out. Very yummy food. It’s not Moroccan and that’s ok with us! J
 
When I left in the morning this sign was taped to my door…..right away I felt the love. Thanks Annie A.! Some of the students brought gifts and they all sang happy birthday to me in at least 3-4 languages with ease. Still shocks me.  I will be using my gift certificate this weekend to the Hammam (turkish bath) and massage. Can NOT wait!! 

Erin came to the bus stop with a small cake and cookie from the French restaurant Paul down the block....yummy!
"Here Ms. Viviel, roses from our garden"

Who doesn't want a purple cow pencil case? Love it!!!


After work we walked to a local "nice" salon to get mani-pedis. This place costs about what it does in NY....can't get a deal everywhere I suppose. 


Instead of picking colors from bottles lined up they handed me a tray of fake nails "Pick a color"......

Much needed refreshments!!! Holy Cow they make the best Mojitos! At Cafe du Livre a favorite spot!

Some of the fabulous people I've met so far!
Erin, Alisha, Liz, Amy, Annie B, Lexi, and Annie A.
SO Yummy!
My lil Topas plate....and they only make wings if you ask....not on the menu for everyone. ;)

I went to the bathroom and upon coming up the stairs the entire restaurant was singing to me. 
VERY surprised and Very Sweet!!! 
With a lump in my throat, I was thankful for the special day my colleagues had created for me away from home. 


On the walk home we saw a full moon...it escaped behind the clouds faster than I could get my camera out. A warm summer night walking home in Marrakech. I'm 42. I'm 42. Weird. 
I'm where I'm supposed to be....right?...even though it does not have all the comforts of home by any means. It is home for now. 
At 41 I was only "thinking" about teaching abroad. 
What should I start to think of doing next??? 
Hmmmm.....
~Namaste

Part 2 First Weekend in Essaouira


We shopped and walked around the Medina. I have not been to the Big one near me yet but was told this one is Much calmer and more pleasant to shop because men are not chasing you down for a sale. 
"You never know what doors will open, until you open up yourself" ~Me :) 

With that being said we walked into a shop inquiring about rugs. Next thing you know Lexi is being dressed as a woman of the Sahara. 
AND THEN....we were invited into the back for a little drumming performance. This was awesome! 
One of the girls had a try as well. Hard to hold the giggles back. (Video not loading.....bummer) 


As day falls into night we strolled and enjoyed the sunset and warm breeze.
With only a 2 hr bus ride (nice bus) and $18 round trip....it's worth it to me. How can you keep a Long Island girl away from water?
Solo Fisherman
This was a Super cool place. We had some cold refreshments and listened to live music. A little Bob Marley put a smile on all of our faces :)
http://www.taroscafe.com


"Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you are living" ~Bob Marley

Looky what I spied. :)


The boys we met had special tangines made for us. There was fish and vegetables, chicken with raisins and onions and something else that looked like lasagna but wasn't. (had hard boiled eggs)
The food was AMAZING!!! Finally! I felt like I was eating Good Moroccan food!
There were 10 of us and we still couldn't finish it.


The next day I decided to brave it. A camel ride. I can't walk on the sand yet so the man brought the camel to me! He then had it translated that camels don't like their feet on a hard surface so I must be quick. Dear Lord! Now I have to be quick jumping on a 12 foot camel??? I screamed of course going up.....they get up in the strangest of ways and feel like you are going to flip off!!!

This is Yousiff....He is 5 years old and he gave me a safe peaceful ride.
I think I love camels now.

 Time for a nap.


 The guys picked out some more fish from the market and .......

 it was served every which way. There was so much once again, we could not finish.

The view was not great, but the company was fab, (beach on other side) and we had ourselves a great afternoon, talking, laughing, eating, listening, and simply enjoying the moment. 

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

1st Weekend Getaway to Essaouira Beach, Camels, Souks, & Meeting Boys :)

Bloody Mary anyone?
We were all to meet downstairs where we usually meet for the bus to school by 7:40am.
Rooms were rented in a riad in Essaouira, a hot spot in Morocco. Actually there were about 12 of us. Some people have boyfriends who came abroad to live with them and they came as well.
The rest of us were 'single ladies' :)

My alarm went off at 7:29 AM. Are you fuc$king kidding me!?
I have 11 minutes to pack for the Weekend?? Not counting the minute you need to catch your breath when you feel like you are having a heart attack because you are beyond running late!!!!!

Then I realize "MY CLOTHES!!!!" Did they dry? I go out to the balcony and grab the whole rack.
Everything is still Damp!
Now I'm throwing damp clothes in a carry on for a weekend get away like a 16 year old who can't get her act together. What in the world is going on!!??? It's like I've never traveled before.
I totally felt like canceling!
I took another deep breath and decided to suck it up, right after I found some dry work clothes on the bed from 2 days ago I would slip on. Totally ridiculous. :(

I get down to the lobby and everyone is smiling, fresh, and looking adorable.
Whatever. Just get me some alcohol that I can't have because I'm still on antibiotics for 2 more weeks.

We took a cab to the bus station, had a rushed breakfast and were boarding a coach bus. 70 Dirhams (roughly $9.00 would lead us to paradise) right?
We walked through the turns of the Medina with shops on every corner. Me and my rolling purple suitcase filled with damp clothes against the cobblestone pathways creating a loud sound....didn't look too obvious I was a tourist.
Not sure what this all is...walked by it so fast....but loved the colors. Next time I come, I will shop. It will be one more week with my ankle hopefully healing as well. A couple people have asked via emails how I'm doing. My ankle 'looks' horrible honestly...sorta like a bad shark bite. It is very upsetting to me and still quite painful. :(  I'm trying not to think about it and just trying to keep up with the day to day stuff. Not easy, and doing lots of elevation when I can, and icing. Thanks for all your positive thoughts and concern.
Sights through the souks
So adorable how it's tucked in next to local vendors.
http://www.riadmaisondusud.com/photographs-hotels-essaouira-riad-gallery/
We settled into a cute room which at first reminded me of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. It was rather small with 3 chairs and 2 beds. The maid was still preparing for us.
Lexi and Katie entering...
Oh no! Perhaps it's not a bad thing my earrings never made it over, this place is an accessory girl's dream!
As much as I wanted to swim and do beach activities I knew that I couldn't. I'm not even allowed to step in the sand. (its how this whole injury got started in the 1st place)
The girls decided to go kite surfing....I said I would "watch" and have coffee and read a book all the way up on shore at a cafe. I thought "at least I'll get a nice view and feel the breeze."
They got their suits on and were ready to go. We all took note of the surf instructors and decided to make small talk. They spoke English well, and Annie had her eye on one...as we all did.
When I realized I would be sitting there for 2 hours in 'work' clothes I was not a happy camper. When one of the gentleman said to me "I will sit with you," things became suddenly brighter and I suddenly sat up straight.  :)
I spent the next 3 hours with 3 Moroccan young men.
Wow!!! We talked about life, culture, jobs, education, food, religion, myths I may have read about.....and so much more.
By the time the girls came back I had told them we have dinner plans.
"Meet my New friends" "they will make us a fine Moroccan meal."
Smiles came from all the girls and that was that. They showed us around and we spent the rest of weekend getting the juice on life in Morocco. They all were born and raised on the beach, and have never left the country.
They can't leave the country.
Visas are hard to get. Especially for young men who are not established. Again, something us Americans sometimes take for granted. We CAN see the world if we choose. All we have to do is buy a plane ticket and get a blue book that gets stamped. Just imagine for one minute that you CAN'T leave the country...like maybe ever. Daunting.
Makes my wet clothes, and wearing a 2 day old work outfit a minuscule issue.

After some more talking we were all able to connect on some level and were invited back for next weekend.
They want to throw me a birthday party....Moroccan style! A cake and everything!!!
This time they have for us a 10 bed Riad for all the girls. Yeah!
Something to look forward to.....turning 42 in Morocco.
Walking into my first riad. I had a smile on ear to ear walking in....it looked just like it did in all the books I had read. I love when that happens.
riad (Arabicرياض‎) is a traditional Moroccan house or palace with an interior garden or courtyard
The riads were inward focused, which allowed for family privacy and protection from the weather in Morocco. This inward focus was expressed in the central location of most of the interior gardensand courtyards and the lack of large windows on the exterior clay or mud brick walls. This design principle found support in Islamic notions of privacy, and hijab for women. Entrance to these houses is a major transitional experience and encourages reflection because all of the rooms open into the central atrium space. In the central garden of traditional riads there are often four orange or lemon trees and possibly a fountain




Even though there are no carpets and no outside windows the light from above and all the plants make it feel very peaceful.



Lots of beautiful artwork place everywhere. And with so many different colors and textures it all goes together. It's giving me ideas on setting up my place!


We were served a continental breakfast here in the morning. 
The good: yummy pastries and jam served all the time. The bad: too many carbs :( 
Colors, Textures, Patterns, oh My!
cool looking sculpture
 Inside the riad at check-in, looking out to the streets....I TOTALLY now get the whole fascination with the thousands of internet pictures of Moroccan doors. So cool!
making plans, 
I will just say "unique"
Hard to capture size of this bathroom but it was small!
~Fancy Feet~
Culture Shock book correct again..."acrobats on the streets"


Guys from the surfer shop preparing the boards....they spoke English well, (thankfully) 
 Annie, Erin, and Annie (yes 2 Annies) were ready to go! 
And then Boom!!!! This camel comes walking by. I can't describe how it felt. Odd and Impressive. The  city background makes it look super imposed.
"Hey guys, I'm listening, and don't mean to be rude but there's this Giant camel walking behind you on the beach, I MUST photograph this." In my mind I was think how weird would it be for a camel to be walking on Cedar Beach or Jones. 
One of my favorite pics so far this trip!!!!

Ahhhh...sitting on a beach, in Africa, watching surfers, camels, (forgot to mention people on horses), wild dogs, and of course the many wandering feline. Such an odd mix, yet harmonious together. Sorta of like the company I was with. 3 total strangers talking for 3 hours. 

I learned the book was Not always right. 
I learned that people are always interested in learning about what is life like on the other side of the world. One of the young men actually asked me "So is living in the United States like living the dream?" It sort of took me off guard. 

I knew Exactly what he had meant. And my father would be the perfect person to answer. I simply spoke about my father leaving Colombia and his ENTIRE, huge family at the age of 23. 
Growing up he spoke Many times about how lucky I am to have the toys and clothes that I had in my room.
After almost every meal my father would rub his belly and sorta shout, but say it very slowly...
God-Bless-America with his Spanish accent. 
We would all say "Dad STOP, thats so embarrassing!" "who says things like that?"

Am I living the dream? I quickly thought.....what dream? 
Whos dream? 
I did tell him, things are NOT handed to you.....however....there are Many opportunities if you create them. After all, it really is up to the individual to create their own destiny. 

Funny, when I got off the plane 14 days ago I thought....is this real? 
Am I really going to live in another  country for 2 years? 
I never even went away to college! 
And so, I am grateful for MY opportunity.
That afternoon, I remained......Mindful in Morocco. 

Part 2 tomorrow....we did spend Saturday night hanging with them and Sunday morning! So tired and my birthday is tomorrow! :)
Hard to keep up with the post but will try.